I realise this may be a bit of a touchy topic, but I feel it is something that should be brought up since it is something that has the potential of being able to impact on someones RL enjoyment of Lusternia.
I have noticed a bit of a discrepancy regarding relationships pertaining to males and females in my time playing Lusternia, particularly pertaining to promiscuity. There is a couple of female characters I am aware of that have effectively been forced to go rogue and have been made pariahs, being labelled 'whore', 'slut' or even 'pedophile', ignoring the fact that a lusternian year passes in a mere 12 IRL days, plus the fact that there is other people in marriages/engagements/other relationships with equally large gaps in their ages, enough-so that they should be considered cradle-snatchers, but people turn a blind eye to it.
In contrast, males seem to get off scot-free, I know of a couple of males that are rather promiscuous and at least one that has questionable motives, yet they are still welcomed within cities and allowed to go about day-to-day activities without a problem.
Basically my gripes are "Why are females so badly stigmatised for their actions while males seem to face relatively minor repercussions?" and "Why is the actions of someone within the privacy of their own manse which is not even connected to their home (or ex-home) city, considered city business, as long as it is not breaking any clearly defined city or commune laws?" As long as they are working to better their home city or commune, what they do in their own manse should be their own business.
(And before anyone says anything, I am male IRL)
For the purposes of this discussion, the people I have mentioned above are to remain anonymous, any "naming and shaming" will be taken up with the administrators. I want this to be a fair, unbiased discussion.