I've always been a little annoyed by the way the system is set up right now that you cannot be married in order to find your family. My character got married before she was ever ina family and now the only way to get parents or siblings is to divorce and then get adopted and then remarry. this hurts the family honour, not to mention it's a pain in the ass and gives you an unwanted divorced line. Just because you got married first doesn't suddenly mean that you no longer have a blood family, parents, siblings, etc. Just because I'm married IRL doesnt mean my family is no longer my family. Now I assume it has something to do with coding and the way families tend ot work in Lusternia with the whole "whoever does the proposing is what family name you take" etc thing but honestly... if they can do it in Achaea so that you can be married AND still find parents...they can do it here. It's just a matter of actually doing it. Can we add that into the whole overhaul thing? cuz my almost 200 year old character needs parents damnit!!!