I'm going to start this discussion knowing that nothing I say here is likely to make the situation(IE, my situation) any better. On the other hand, I don't believe it's possible to make it worse. So here we go.
-No, I'm not a newbie. I haven't played a while and there's a lot I've forgotten.
-Yes I was aware of the laws concerning contemptibles and general expectations, etc etc.
-I am not complaining about being treated "badly"
-I had only a passing familiarity with Sutekh and knew almost nothing about what happened between him and Mag until Shango told me(IC).
I have heard it before that the way Magnagora treats 'undesirable' races is at least better than Celest's complete banning of them, presumably because it allows for the possibility of roleplay. I may have even made that argument myself before. The claim that I've heard from some is that the law might have been changed if not for Sutekh's actions. I don't care either way if that's true. What bothers me is that knowing this makes it obvious that it is impossible for anything to ever change.
It's one thing to know that certain limitations exist currently. It's another to know that there's always now going to be a "roleplay" justification for why the law can't be changed, even though Sutekh wasn't really a kephera any more than I'm a merian, and we have nothing to do with each other. Because of this incident (and other things I've heard oocly), I really don't want to interact with most people in Mag, because of the feeling that I'm just going to be pissing them off by doing so. As it is, I would suicide this character if not for how ridiculously lucky I've been for solstice and vaults so far.
My point is, I hate what feels like dishonesty more than anything else about this situation. If Magnagorans, generally, feel that there is no way that anyone could play a merian, kephera, or elfen in an interesting way and be of some benefit to the city... then just ban those races. It would be kinder, would cause less frustration and drama, ic and oocly, for all involved. It's not really a side option if current Magnagoran players don't want the rp.
tldr, sorry but Celest is right.
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I'm sorry to hear you're not having a great time in the city, and I hope you find somewhere in the game that gels well with you.
I know Shango has been working on allowing you to change title and do things in the Infernals, and I know other individuals have been doing stuff to make sure that you're as prepared as you can be. (I also would like to apologize about not taking you on in a spar yesterday. That was due to me being an idiot and not due to general disdain from the character.)
Magnagora is not as lively during the times that you're around, but feel free to reach out to me in game.
I didn't take it that way, Ilthilior. I admit part of my perception here could be because of frustration in general and that Lusternia seems kinda slow lately.
I don't think bringing the Sutekh topic into this conversation does you any favors. There's a lot to unpack that I won't get into, but doubling down on being contemptible race publicly is not a good example for your argument. Mag is not going to just forget its RP because a person thinks their desires weigh more heavily than centuries of Mag RP and their Elder's wishes. They, like you by your own words, are not newbies. So it appears you enter into that race and RP with knowledge of how they are treated. It strikes me as odd to walk into a punch and then question to the punch you knew was coming.
I really don't want to interact with most people in Mag, because of the feeling that I'm just going to be pissing them off by doing so.
I don't feel that way, for what it's worth. Interacting is more than welcome. I'd offer we just don't want a contemptible race flexing on their contemptible race and waving it around as if we should care. Maggots belong in the dirt, not riding on a tainted gas cloud with champagne.
If Magnagorans, generally, feel that there is no way that anyone could play a merian, kephera, or elfen in an interesting way and be of some benefit to the city... then just ban those races.
I don't feel that way. Many can and have played those races with interesting RP and also have contributed. Those that do have to accept that they will not get advancement opportunities in the city. Until Sutekh went off the deep end and tried to flex their racial RP to contest/advance in cityrank, they would have been a great example of such.
NPCs generally now respect race hats. Generally players respect race hats. There are a couple methods to check true race, but no one cares to in my experience. If your aim is to solve a problem rather than causing a stir: If you're absolutely set on being one of those races and choose not to change, buy a race hat, don't "flex" contemptible RP, and live your best life would be my advice. (Any number of Mags would just buy it for you, if that's an issue.) If you don't think this is possible... I'm merian most of the time for hunting bonuses (THE HORROR!)... If Fain came back tomorrow, I'd point at my race hat (and let's be real, the 50 other mask-like artifacts covering the face) and say, "Surely the mighty Red Masque, whose Masque is not really as such, would not begrudge me a myriad of secrets as well, right Lord?"
Mal does not care about race. They have purpose to him, only in two factors:
1) Aesthetics, as he tends to notice a lass with fur.
2) Racial ability, as he sometimes asks for specific ones.
If you're a merian, you can run a hunt, yay. He does not follow Fain or care that you are merian. He has previously cityfavoured contemptibles because he genuinely doesn't pay attention to races. He remembers names, he may forget genders, and he ignores race. The only time you will see him bring up race directly is something like "Do we have an igasho to tackle?".
It is just not who he is. Now, there are other people in Magnagora who are not especially concerned with race, and this is why things could change. I think incremental progress could be made, but it has to be incremental, you aren't about to become Warlord tomorrow. This will take work and diligent RP though.
As Zagreus mentioned, if you get a race hat and don’t flaunt that you’re secretly a merian, nobody will care. If you reincarnated into another race - nobody would care you were contemptible.
If you want to fully enjoy being a Magnagoran, frankly you probably shouldn’t play as a contemptible. There are some people that don’t care, but overall shouldn’t ask those who do to compromise the roleplay of their organization.
For myself (and I know others), I typically don’t reach out to roleplay with contemptibles as I want to keep to the roleplay of Magnagora in disliking them, but it’s really not an experience I enjoy playing and I would just rather said person not be one to begin with. I don’t particularly enjoy the idea of reaching out to a contemptible just to stomp on them. And if you’re OOCly expecting an interaction beyond getting stomped on, I’m sorry but that’s the established roleplay of generations of Magnagora - see above about reincarnating or getting a race hat.
In short, it’s an option for those masochists that really want it - but it’s not a recommended play experience and if you feel you’re mostly being ignored in part that is because other Magnagorans don’t always enjoy the interactions there either (plus whatever time of play issues there are). That said I’m sure we would respond if we’re reached out to.
"You can buy your way out of it" doesn't seem like a great answer, even when followed with "Or someone else might buy your way out of it for you"
I know I personally steer clear of Mag because play pretend discrimination and meanness towards actual people (or their characters) isn't any more fun to me than the real life sort, giving or receiving. I just feel like these sorts of things come up too often and the response is often "but our ArPee" or "Justification #5 by Chanel" or "just buy a racehat and cheat the system like the rest of us" and none of those actually feel like they're helping the situation which culminated in someone feeling bad enough about something they dared risk the forums to talk about it.
Maybe that makes me a snowflake, but mostly I think it just means I care about people and their feelings more than the game or its story. And when I saw another thread from another person saying the racial discrimination in the city feels inflexible and is hitting the feelsbadman button, I felt like I have to point out that this is starting to look like a pattern, and one which involves people feeling hurt or upset and perhaps that means it's a pattern worth breaking.
Edited to Add: And if the RP is only important at such a superficial level that everyone's just buying their way around it anyway, maybe it's not actually that important?
If there was a way to ban picking kephera/elfen/merian if you are going Magnagora I would be all for it as then only people who really want to commit to it and take the step to reincarnate could.
Nor did I say "This is just like r/l race discrimination" but thanks for clarifying they aren't the same thing I guess.
I am saying this keeps coming up, and seems to be hurting people, and maybe we shouldn't justify that because people are (or at least should be) more important than the roleplaying game.
Ignorance is one thing, on rolling that race in Magnagora, and I think most any of us would go out of our way to explain the stance to a character and offer them the chance to reincarnate (everyone gets a free one, not to mention they're all free until you hit level 31). If you make a choice to play that race after newbie-hood, then it's a deliberate choice to take on the laws and the IC stigma to go with it. Some people enjoy playing that, good for them. If you don't, however, then you should absolutely change the race, NOT expect the lore and characters to suddenly about face and welcome you.
Player feelings matter, and despite what people outside the org might assume or say, we actually are a largely drama free org. We tend to get along IC and OOC, we like to help each other out, there are so many very generous people who kit out newbies and oldbies alike with everything they need, we help each other level, I don't think I've seen anyone actively try to ruffle feathers outside of, sadly, contemptibles looking to be treated like they're not a contemptible.
I'd be fine with banning the races entirely. I think it's ok for orgs to have racial identities and the old race stats linked to classes (where it mattered way more) used to help cement that by actively giving benefits for being one of the org's linked races. Now they matter less mechanically, and waaaay more people have cameos and racehats are amazing - they mean you can have your mechanics and still present as whatever race you want for RP. There is frankly no need for someone to be a contemptible in Magnagora unless they want the RP. And if they want the RP, why are we being hated on for giving it?
Serenwilde don't let undead characters hang about the forest. It hurts my feelings that even though our alliance says I can harvest there freely, I'm asked to leave - shouldn't Seren consider MY feelings before their laws and RP? Celest ban illithoid and viscanti I believe? Shouldn't they consider the feelings of the player who wants to be there as one and let them stay and change their laws and views? Most of the game has a reason to hate/fear the taint, but as a player of a tainted race (viscanti) it hurts my feelings and I feel discriminated against, shouldn't the whole game stop and just ignore the hating taint and Magnagora part?
I'm sorry you feel isolated, Loralai. People can and have played those races and seemed to enjoy it, but it's done with the full knowledge of being an eternal serf with no rights - but still a cog in the engine, just one we hide in the back and don't really like, but we'll use it. But as you said you are not a newbie so it's hard to feel a lot of sympathy for the situation you've landed yourself in through your choices. And there are rp options besides slapping on a hat - you can RP a redemption arc and a ritual and fully embracing the taint and transforming your race with it (makes sense to evolve into a viscanti for example). Others have come from different orgs as reviled races and done similar things. What sticks in my craw is, should players embrace the org they choose to play in and work within it, or should it be expected that orgs adapt to whatever the player wants to get out of it?
Change may happen - I'm not saying it can't or never will, but it's something that shifts over time and with rp. The fact that anyone speaks to your character is a sign of that, old Mag it would have been unheard of, except to insult, order about or abuse. The fact that your GM is working on a plan despite the general feeling of the city, to make a path for contemptibles to progress and have tasks says a lot also, the fact that people allow you to join them hunting or fighting or dump power on you or whatever else speaks of the change that has happened over many years. Nothing is stopping the characters from going around individuals, garnering support, slipping in how archaic the laws are, look how good a cog I am maybe contemptibles can be reformed and accepted, and working on changing the laws, have people really consider their stance, etc. I just think it's unfair to expect us to suddenly go 'ok sorry being contemptible is unfun, let's just scrap it and love all the races'. How about, if its not your kind of fun rping as a contemptible, you change that status, either by changing your race (easy option) or trying to rp and bring about change (uphill battle but not impossible). Sutekh tried to force our hands and contest for GM. If he hadn't, and had kept chipping away for rights, things may well look different. He is the reason contemptibles can work on the epic, for example, and why they can have a lich seed in certain situations.
For myself (and I know others), I typically don’t reach out to roleplay with contemptibles as I want to keep to the roleplay of Magnagora in disliking them, but it’s really not an experience I enjoy playing and I would just rather said person not be one to begin with. I don’t particularly enjoy the idea of reaching out to a contemptible just to stomp on them. And if you’re OOCly expecting an interaction beyond getting stomped on, I’m sorry but that’s the established roleplay of generations of Magnagora - see above about reincarnating or getting a race hat.
My feelings are not hurt, I promise. If anything I've been surprised how nice most people have been.
I think this is probably true, wrt to oldMag. I have vague memories of that time period. Here and now, though, it seems to be more of a sensitive issue and people are shying away from wanting it at all. I'm not sure I believe you that anything would continue to change, but it's not really the issue anyway. You're assuming I'm complaining about things I'm not. I have nearly max power at the moment, and I know how to get more easily enough. I don't have any complaints about Shango, or anyone else in Mag as far as how I've been treated.
However - we do make it clear what the situation is for people going that route. It feels like we've had a lot of contemptibles lately which probably adds to the apathy. Another snowflake who would rather be the anomaly than just a regular citizen. I'm not saying that's you or even anyone, but it can end up feeling that way when it's flavour of the month (and at one point I want to say we had 3-4 logging in regularly which is actually a lot).
If you're playing a contemptible because you thought Mag players would want one, then yeah no wonder you're disappointed. Again we try to make it very clear to people the status they're buying into choosing those races - but if someone is adamant they want to be the perpetual lower level, more power to em, grovel away. But I don't think many if any current players in Mag are particularly interested in engaging hardcore in that sort of story, my perception on the people I know anyway. If you were interested in Loralai looking for arcane secrets and necromantic rituals to purge her inferior form and embrace the taint etc etc I'd be highly intrigued and would enjoy the experimenting and the like, if I were approached. I can't speak for others but for myself, not interested in your every day tolerating a contemptible rp and I think others may be the same. If anything, we like to help and boost up our kiddos so it's probably frustrating knowing you are ever going to be on the lower level as a merian even if the players don't really like it, does that make sense?
As for non-newbie players, there used to be big warnings when you tried to choose races that were considered bad for the org (ie contemptibles for Mag, Halli had a warning for dracnari, Celest warned against viscanti and illithoid etc) and racially aligned races were strongly recommended. This might be something we should bring to the admin's attention, it was a good part of the old intro.
It is odd that there were so many recently. Dunno what that's about, I only heard of the one.
" you thought Mag players would want one" Mm kind of an odd way to phrase it imo. I think taking risks and trying different roleplay is not a bad thing. But if there is a concept within an entire org that no one wants to play into, it probably shouldn't exist. Guild and city rank don't mean a great deal to me, at least on this character. Your response does at least confirm that my perception is correct.
I'm not a newbie, and I remember those warnings. It should be brought back, but I also think Mag should ban the races.
Short of being forced to change an incredibly long standing rule or an exceptional amount of RP, I do not believe we would just up and change that.