Yup, this thread was gonna have to get revived sometime, and looks like I'm the one doing it. This is the place to go when you want to up your odds of hooking a spouse for your character, since sometimes it's not all that easy. Don't worry, there's nothing to be ashamed of, we're all in this together.
I am once again hoping to track down a spouse for Phoebus. Yes, she's married right now, but her husband is inactive and it's time to move on. I'd just rather not get divorced only to still never be able to find her a partner. That would be even more depressing than a dead marriage. Unfortunately this makes it pretty darned awkward to be forward about wanting to re-marry!
Phoebus is interested in both men and women, of all races (trill or lucidian would be preferred, but not necessary.) Hallifaxian citizenship is required, however. You would also need to be down with marrying into house Windwhisper, no exceptions.
As a bit of a closet romantic, Phoebus is not looking for a loveless marriage agreement (that would totally make my chances of finding her a Hallifaxian spouse higher, but alas) and won't be marrying anyone she doesn't at least enjoy talking to. This means if we talk in-game, and we end up not getting along at all, or it's just sort of awkward and forced, no dice. But before you get any ideas in your head, no, she is a proper lady and will abide by nothing more than appropriately decorous exchanges of affection. Tut tut.
So yep, while this is pretty much the equivalent of writing out "I have unrealistic expectations here is why we could never get married", I have hope, dammit. Send a message along my way if you're interested.